Tuesday 31 October 2017

Suicidal view.....


Suicides means killing oneself by his own will.

Everyone use to curse people who do suicides or tries it, but no one actually wants to know the reason ..
A famous understanding is that when one gets frustrated and have nothing left in his life or he got himself/herself in depression and finds no solution of his problems, that's why he took this coward step..
And the reasons they have found till date behind these problems are ..
Family issues
Studies
Job instability
Love affairs
And some more..
Because they were unable to handle it they committed suicide..
But what about those who have no such problem, as they have good job, good family, good lifestyle, good life partner and no family issues either and still they committed suicide, you must be thinking who they are and why they committed suicide. Let me tell you these are the army personnel..
Don't they have good job, respect , money, life partner, yes they have than why they did so..
Can anyone answer this simple question..
Let me aware you about a fact..Around 310 (government figure) army personnel committed suicide and 11 were killed by fratricide since 2014..
What could be reasons???
No one is actually wants to discuss these issue at all as they have more works to do like they are busy in cursing Pakistan and China.. they are busy in GST and demonetization they are busy in Hindu Muslim fights .. they are busy in bajrang dal they are busy in cursing JNU's students for their anti-national activities and many other so called national activities.. they are busy...We are busy everyone is busy .. so who will think over these issues.. the answer is no one....
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You Can’t Ignore Sometimes

You Can’t Ignore Sometimes
You just can’t ignore sometimes. I heard an very interesting conversation the other day, it was basically on how one should react and behave when someone insults the other. Obviously the people do insults each other, not because they hate others one, but just to look cool and make fun of the other one, because when you insults someone it gives you the percentage that how much cool you are.
So there were two people talking, out of which one was a skinny brown guy, who eats well, dress well, act and behave well but just because he is skinny and black, people use to insult him. He was looking so upset about this, so he was talking to an elder lady, I don’t know what their relation was (hardly matter) anyhow, the guy was telling her his pains and how he feels when someone insults him, and the lady told him to ignore the fact and just enjoy your own. But no change came to his life, the things were same like, people you to tease him, insults him, bully him (Obviously for no reason at all). Then I went to him after around 5 or 6 days and had a normal conversation. I told him not to ignore but think over it positively like think why people insults you and how you can better give them answers despite ignoring them. So he used it for his betterment and many things changed positively like there was a big change in his behavior, he got positive attitude, he got answers of the insults people used to do……
I think you just can’t ignore sometimes and you should not ignore everything, face the reality, and fight with the reality because it’s not like you are insulting someone in return of his/her insults, but it’s for your self-respect. Because self respect important hai bhai….
So next time when someone insults you do not just ignore them but give your self a moment to wait, think and act positively……